Yes or No Parenting Beliefs Questions?
As I was reading about different parenting styles it made me wonder how different my views are from others(not that I care, I was just curious).
I opted to leave my answers off to avoid over the top points of view from other Mother’s who don’t have the same beliefs that I have.
Abortion (Not only would you or wouldn’t you have one but do you/would you condone others getting one.)
Circumcision
Baby Immunization
Breastfeeding
Formula
Disposable Diapers
Items that are not approved by the CPSC (bumpers, car seat extras-straps, covers, head rests. department store sleepers that aren’t approved by the SIDS Association, etc. etc.)
Baby Wearing
Baby Leashes
Co-Sleeping
Crying It Out
Spoon Feeding
Infant Ear Piercing
Baby Development Television Shows
Child Care Centers
Stern Voice
Spanking
Toys That Are Dangerous In Real Life(Guns, Knives, Swords, Baby Dolls-as in teaching your child how to care for and to want a baby of their own at a young age, etc. etc.)
Bleached- I can tell that you’re a 13 year old girl one who obviously can’t read. I said that I wasn’t putting my views on there to avoid rude comments like yours. What are you even doing in this section? Get out.
P.S the "13 year old teenage girl with gut and an hourglass figure
" comment comes off to me as you’re full of yourself and nobody likes people like that. Plus nobody like ignorant people and you’re full of ignorance. You might want to go look up what ignorance because I’m willing to bet you have no idea what it means. Let along 3/4 of the things that were listed in my question.
I can’t stand teenagers who are so rude for no reason. Children like that are what I absolutely don’t want my Son to end up being like. It’s not cool.
I don’t know what the controversy on spoon feeding is…. It was listed on the site so I added it.
I don’t know what else you would do without a spoon. Use your fingers??
30 Responses
Wife of an A1C
08 Feb 2010
marksilviamarcos
08 Feb 2010
And your question is WHAT??????
ɐuuɐǝɹq
08 Feb 2010
Um i would say yes to the following:
Circumcism
Breast feeding
Formula
Disposable diapers
Yes to Car seats! ![]()
Baby delopment shows
stern voice
and spanking….kids need discipline…but not till they are old enough to understand
NO the rest of the things! EXPECAILLY ABORTION!
ily<3
08 Feb 2010
Abortion (Not only would you or wouldn’t you have one but do you/would you condone others getting one.)-no i don’t like killing baby’s
Circumcision-no that’s not that right no ones gonna c it!
Baby Immunization-maybe
Breastfeeding-yes!yes Always!
Formula-no,maybe
Disposable Diapers-yes if u feel like it it would b Better 2 use cloth
Items that are not approved by the CPSC (bumpers, car seat extras-straps, covers, head rests. department store sleepers that aren’t approved by the SIDS Association, etc. etc.)-no
Baby Wearing-no
Baby Leashes-no
Co-Sleeping-yes
Crying It Out-yes if it is necessary
Spoon Feeding-yea sure
Infant Ear Piercing-no i don’t think its necessary
Baby Development Television Shows-yea
Child Care Centers-maybe
Stern Voice-yea wats so wrong?
Spanking-only if necessary
Toys That Are Dangerous In Real Life(Guns, Knives, Swords, Baby Dolls-as in teaching your child how to care for and to want a baby of their own at a young age, etc. etc.)-yea
virginia
08 Feb 2010
I wouldn’t have an abortion but it is not up to me or anybody else to tell somebody else what to do.
Circumcision is a good idea, as is breastfeeding, co-sleeping is fine, no spanking use time outs instead.
♥♥
08 Feb 2010
Abortion I would not have one but i don’t judge others that do for many reasons 1 being a 11 year old friends daughter was raped and had an abortion after finding out she was pregnant
Circumcision No
Baby Immunization yes
Breastfeeding yes
Formula Yes
Disposable Diapers yes
Items that are not approved by the CPSC (bumpers, car seat extras-straps, covers, head rests. department store sleepers that aren’t approved by the SIDS Association, etc. etc.) No
Baby Wearing
Baby Leashes yes
Co-Sleeping No but i don’t judge others that do
Crying It Out NO
Spoon Feeding yes
Infant Ear Piercing no
Baby Development Television Shows yes
Child Care Centers yes
Stern Voice yes
Spanking A tap on the hand yes but nothing else this is how i raise my children
loveSEGA
08 Feb 2010
Abortion — No
Circumcision — Yes
Immunization — No
Breastfeeding — Yes
Formula — No
Disposable Diapers — No
Not approved by CPSC — try to avoid
Baby Wearing — (Does this mean like snugglis or carriers like that? If so, then yes)
Baby Leashes — Yes
Co-sleeping — in moderation (it’s a hard habit to break sometimes)
Crying it out — not sure I understand this one, I say let them cry a few minutes sometimes to see if they just want attention
Spoon feeding — ??
Infant Ear Piercing — No
Baby Development TV — No
Child Care Centers — try to avoid
Stern voice — yes
Spanking — Yes
Toys that are Dangerous in Real Life — Mostly yes, with education and supervision, but not sure what all this entails
Lindsey
08 Feb 2010
abortion: i am against it unless it was a rape or incest
circumcision: for it
baby immunizations: for it
breast feeding: wanted to but physically couldn’t
formula: had to b/c of the previous situation
disposable diapers: use them
approved baby items: i only really check on like car seats and stuff
baby wearing: not sure what you mean by that
baby leashes: was opposed to it until i had my first daughter and only then do i approve of it in a really busy place like disney world
co-sleeping: did it with my first child and it was the biggest mistake of my life because i never got a good night’s sleep
crying it out: i let my second child cry it out and she is much more independent and i finally get sleep now
spoon feeding: what do you mean? why would that be a controversial parenting issue?
infant ear piercing: i pierced my first daughter’s ears @ 6 months and i was planning on doing my second daughter’s ear too but i never got around to it and she’s 2 now
baby Development TV: my kids watch tv all day…like nick jr or something my kids (2 and 4) can both count in spanish and are both very smart but i didn’t really encourage the tv thing…it just kinda happened
child care centers: i would use one if i had to but luckily my husband and i can afford for me to stay home with them
stern voice: i use a stern voice all the time with my kids…
spanking: i don’t spank unless it’s the last resort and i have given multiple chances and time out didn’t work
i think kids that are taught the correct way at a correct age to use guns and knives is fine but i don’t think they should be able to get ahold of them unless they have parent or adult watching them
Bleached
08 Feb 2010
if you don’t care y would u ask?
but, seeing as i am typing already i must add that baby leashes are sick and wrong cuz its a baby not a dog, spanking is crule, and infant ear peircing is taking away the kids right to choose weather or not she wants it. giving the sense that they are in controll over their life is good. most kids bossy parents who say no a lot feel caged.
don’t give your kid a toy gun/nife. they’ll grow up thinking guns are cool and crak jokes about shooting people on the bus from shool. though they’re joking, it’s not that cool.plus giving ur kid a doll will not give them the urge to go and have sex with the first man they meet. chill, ok? my sis had the baby doll she practically worshipped, she’s 12 and hates men of all ages.
you sound like some freaked out mom who won’t as so much let your kids be ten inches away from you in walmart. give ur kids space. when they’re 13-17 let them have the life they want, give them freedom and don’t hover. if you raised them right then you have no reson to have a cow when they get asked out. it’s nomal ok? kids are kids, we all die in the end.
‘lil peanu
08 Feb 2010
Abortion: Would not get one myself and would do my best to talk anyone I know out of getting one. I do not think it should be illegal because people would do it dangerosly but I think they should be shown an abortion before they are allowed to have one and see what really happens
circumsision: Yes baby boys should have them unless it is AGAINST the religion because I know of more than one grown man have to get one because something went wrong later in life.
All babies should be immunized because they have no other way to fight infection and deseases and the benifits far outweigh the risks
Breast feeding is the best but if a woman can NOT breastfeed for whatever reason she should not be made to feel bad about it. Formula is a perfectly viable option.
Disposible Diapers are great and very convient
I don’t know much about these items
If the baby likes the devices that allow them to be "worn" by a parent than go for it, My baby hated it
Baby leashes, don’t you mean toddler leashes. I was against that untill my toddler almost ran in front of a car
cosleeping is fine as long as both parents agree and should probably be stopped before elem school
Crying it out is fine as long as you contine to check on the baby make sure the child is o.k. every so often till the child falls asleep which the child eventually will
spoon feeding is the only way babies get food at first then let them try. I think they should learn to feed themselves at a young age
I dont like infant ear peircing the child should allowed to decide if and when they want it done. and it should be when they can take care of it themselves
Parents should watch any programs with their child so they can talk about it. they lean more when watching with the parents
I think child care centers are necessary and some get a bad rap. they should be researched and the parents should visit. I think they are safer than in home daycare and are held to stricketer regulations but I think they are good especially for preschool age children
somtimes you can not get a childs attention if you always talk in stern voice but you need to use it sometims to grab the attention of a chld in danger
spanking can be used effectively if it is used as a last resort. if you spank for everything it looses its impact
toys that condone violence, guns, knives, swords I do NOT believe in there are so many other toys availbal now how is a baby doll dangersous. I think those are good tools in teaching how to care for and love others, it makes good parents and there is NO proof that it condones young parents.
Georgia :)
08 Feb 2010
Abortion – If it is necessary, I would do it, or advise someone too.
Circumcision – No, I do not believe circumcision is necessary. I didn’t do it to any of my boys and my husband didn’t do it either.
Baby immunization – To get a baby immunized, can be good. If there is a serious disease going around, such as the swine flu, I would. But little things like a cold, I wouldn’t.
Breastfeeding – I did do it with my twins, but when I had my quadruplets I didn’t have the time, or enougn milk. I would give it to the weaker ones sometimes, but after a while I stopped. For one or two babies, it’s good too.
Formula – Formula I think is fine because if you don’t have the time, or enough milk, you may need to. I did.
Disposable Diapers – I did use disposable diapers because with six kids, it gets to alot of laundry to do, and not enough time. It may have brought the garbage rate up a little, but once they were potty trained it was fine.
I like to have my items approved by the CPSC.
Baby wearing – I did not baby wear, but some parents do and i think its great.
Baby leashes – Baby leashes are discusting and I do not approve. It’s like treating your precious baby like a dog.
Co-sleeping – I don’t think co-sleeping is very safe. It may be more convinient, but so would putting duck tape on the babies crying wouldn’t it?
Crying it out – It is not very good for the babies developpment, and scientists say that they start to panic or become very anxious. I don’t think its good, and I don’t do it.
Spoon feeding – When the baby is young and unable to hold the spoon and feed themselves, I do spoon feed. I try to teach them to use the spoon and fork at early age though.
Infant Ear piercing – I think it’s unatural to pierce a babies ear at a yound age. The earliest I would do it would be 8 year old.
Baby development televison shows – I believe the babies mind developps better with interacting, but some shows and games are good.
Child care centers – If both parents have to work to make ends meet, thn child care centers are fine. I am pretty wealthy, therefore I can stay home with my beautiful kids.
Stern voices – I use a minimzed stern voice in my house, but parents who yell and their children is unacceptable. I believe in firm but gentle.
Spanking – I don’t believe in spanking, and neither did my parents. I am strongly against abuse, or hitting towards a child. A firm voice, a no, and maybe a time out. Never, should you ever hit a child.
Dangerous toys – I don’t believe in playing woth knives, but when the child get older I think a water gun, or a plastic sword is okay. I am completely okay with dolls.
Hope this helps!
DizzeeBee
08 Feb 2010
Abortion – Yes. I wouldn’t do it myself I don’t think (although I don’t know until I’m in a dire situation… who knows what could happen in the future?) but I certainly don’t believe I have control over the bodies of others.
Circumcision – No. Totally unnecessary and no one here does it anyway so it’s not like my son would feel like the odd one out or anything.
Baby Immunization – Yes. I’d get all the ones the NHS offer but I wouldn’t have the extra unnecessary ones that are often offered in the USA. (I’m going to university to study immunology so I’m sure I’ll be pretty well equipped to judge these situations when I become a parent.)
Breastfeeding- YES. Definitely.
Formula – No. I will do everything I can to avoid giving my future children formula but if I really have to as a last resort there’s not much I can do. It annoys me when women don’t at least TRY to breastfeed but obviously for some women it doesn’t work out.
Disposable Diapers – No, not for me. Again, I’d like to see all parents at least try cloth but I doubt that will happen.
Items that are not approved by the CPSC – We don’t have the CPSC here but I wouldn’t use anything that the government didn’t approve.
Baby Wearing – Yes.
Baby Leashes – Yes in certain situations.
Co-Sleeping – Yes.
Crying It Out – No.
Spoon Feeding – I don’t think so. Almost definitely no.
Infant Ear Piercing – No, never.
Baby Development Television Shows – Some are good.
Child Care Centers – Yes but only certain types.
Stern Voice – Yes.
Spanking – No way.
Toys That Are Dangerous In Real Life – Not guns or knives (unless for kitchen use). Maybe a sword for a knight costume very possibly. I want all my children (male and female) to have baby dolls though as I think it teaches about caring for a sibling and compassion not teen parenting.
Jessica
08 Feb 2010
Abortion: me personally… no, but Pro choice
Circumcision: Yes, it cuts down on infections and is easier to clean for little boys
Baby immunizations: you are an idiot if you dont… there are so many ugly diseases out there
Breastfeeding: is healthier for you and your baby
Formula: Is a good backup to breastfeeding, also a good alternative for those who cant breastfeed
Disposable diapers: a godsend
Items that are not approved by the CPSC: cant see why anyone would use those items
Baby wearing: ??
Baby leashes: are for lazy people who dont want to watch their children
Co-Sleeping: is dangerous in so many ways
Crying it out: Depends on the situation… when they are under six months… absolutely not….once they learn to cry to get what they want… absolutely!
Spoon Feeding: why not?
Infant ear piercing: i think they should be old enough to make the choice for themselves, ppl who do this to infants I think are using their child as a fashion statement
Baby Development TV shows: are idiotic
Child Care Centers: assuming they are fully accredited, i am all for them
Stern Voice: what parent doesnt use that voice once in a while (or all the time)
Spanking: if the situation warrants it… there is a BIG difference between spanking and beating BTW. but shouldnt be used as discipline every time
Toys: Guns, knives, and swords… no. I had baby dolls since i was a kid and waited until i was married for 3 and a half years before i got pregnant.
There you go!
dancinglace432
08 Feb 2010
Abortion (Not only would you or wouldn’t you have one but do you/would you condone others getting one.)-not for me, but its a personal choice
Circumcision-no
Baby Immunization-as long as its safe
Breastfeeding-yes
Formula-no
Disposable Diapers-no, I’d use cloth
Items that are not approved by the CPSC (bumpers, car seat extras-straps, covers, head rests. department store sleepers that aren’t approved by the SIDS Association, etc. etc.)-no
Baby Wearing-yes
Baby Leashes-NO
Co-Sleeping-yes
Crying It Out-no
Spoon Feeding-yes
Infant Ear Piercing-no
Baby Development Television Shows-yes
Child Care Centers-no
Stern Voice-yes
Spanking-no
Toys That Are Dangerous In Real Life(Guns, Knives, Swords, Baby Dolls-as in teaching your child how to care for and to want a baby of their own at a young age, etc. etc.)-gun, knives, swords NO, but dolls yes
Kitterkat
08 Feb 2010
Abortion- never for myself but i try not to impose my beliefs on others. i do find abortion being used as a form of birth control disturbing and wrong.
circumcision- Nope
Baby immunization- yes except season flu which i find redundant
breastfeeding- yup my chosen method of nutrition
formula- a safe alternative
disposable diapers- to each their own, i personally do cloth
unapproved extras- i have find no use for any of these items. but again to each their own
baby wearing = awesomeness
baby leashes- not something i would use, i rely on discipline
co-sleeping- my children always have spent the first six months to a year in the same room as me if not the same bed
cry it out- i try to avoid this
spoon feeding- when age appropriate
infant ear piercing- no
Baby show- TV is TV, we try to limit it
child care centers- not for us
Stern voice- this is required when disciplining
spanking- nessessary sometimes
Kaylee’s m
08 Feb 2010
Abortion- I myself do not agree with them in your typical situation. However, I do not look down on others who get them unless they are extremely irresponsible and use this as a form of birth control which is ridiculous.
Circumcision- I don’t have a son but if I did I would probably get him circumcised for both health reasons and cosmetic.
Baby Immunization- I really hate getting my daughter all of those shots but I’m afraid not too. I pretty much just use my own judgment when it comes to her having more than one at once or too often. For example, I waited for her first Hep B rather than having it at the hospital and I will never allow any when she has a cold.
Breast Feeding- I didn’t but I respect moms who do because they say it is the best thing for your baby. I don’t like moms who look down on those of us who choose not to breast feed.
Formula- After 9 months of being pregnant and giving your body over to your little one sometimes we just need to be ourselves again. Also, breastfeeding isn’t for everyone.
Disposable Diapers- OMG a must have.
Items not approved- They shouldn’t even be allowed to be sold let alone would I purchase any of them.
Baby wearing- not sure what you mean
Baby leashes- Crazy if you had a child you should be capable of watching them instead of treating them like a dog to make your life easier.
Co-sleeping- As long as you do it safely I think it’s ok. I have an arms reach co-sleeper bed attached to my bed for my daughter and I think it is the best purchase I have made.
Crying it out- It depends on the child’s age and what they are crying for. I would never let a newborn cry it out unless you need a moment to calm yourself down. However, once the child is old enough to just be wanting something they can cry for a few minutes. Definitely in the case of a temper tantrum they should cry it out.
Spoon Feeding- Everyone says you should wait until 6 months but I think it depends on the child as no two babies are the same. I began feeding my daughter rice cereal at 3 months and bananas at 4 months, not to make her sleep as she was already a great sleeper but because she showed an interest in food and was always hungry. It has been working out great.
Infant Ear Piercing- I’m not sure how I feel. I wanted to pierce my daughter’s ears but only if it was at the doc. He said he didn’t do it on babies and I decided to wait. There is no way I would ever let a teen at the mall do it.
Baby Dev. Tv- I think it is a hoax but I let my daughter watch tv for a few minutes every now and then we all a few minutes to get things done.
Child care centers- I would never put anyone down for putting their child in daycare because we all do what we have to. But I am very set on raising my own children full-time until she is pre-k age then I will send her a few days a week to interact with other children.
Stern Voice- Definitely needed at times
Spanking- I don’t believe it is ever the answer to raising your child. However, if my daughter was ever to run into the road or something of that severity I would smack her on the bum or hand. You should never ever hit your child in the face though no matter what their age.
Toys- I’m not sure how I feel on this issue. My husband always says no dolls but I think if you suppress something it will cause a problem too.
Erin H
08 Feb 2010
Just my opinions=reasonable minds can differ-I wouldn’t have one, hope others won’t but but don’t necessarily think it should be illegal
circumcision-I chose not to and know plenty of uncut adult men with no problems, its up to the parent, or my son if he wants to later in life
For immunizations-no good correlation between immunization and autism and scary diseases are making a comeback because people don’t. I think everyone forgets kids died of crap like whooping cough all the time 100 years ago.
Breastfeeding-I breastfed and think its the ideal,but…
Formula is o.k., too-I know some people who tried and just couldn’t nurse or hated it-I had formula and turned out okay
I avoid thinks discouraged by SIDS assoication-no bumpers on the crib, etc.
Baby wearing-why not?
Leashes-I hope not to have to use one, but I know that sometimes its the only alternative for some kids so I am not going to judge others
co-sleeping-I never did it, always afraid I’d smish my son or he’d get used to it and it would be a big trauma when we wanted him in his own bed. But if other people are comfortable with it, that’s their business.
CIO-Its okay but to get kids on a reasonable sleep schedule only-I wouldn;t leave a child crying for some other reason unless it was a tantrum, but I am not letting them stay up until 11 because I don’t want them to cry, either
Spoon feeding-fine as long as its developmentally appropriate
Ear Piercing-I wouldn’t pierce my child’s ears unless they were old enough to ask for it
TV-I think Sesame Street is fun for toddlers-Baby Einstein and tv for infants is just weird to me
Child Care Centers-It depends. My son goes to one that is wonderful, others I wouldn’t get near. It depends on the quality
Stern Voice=Sure
Spanking-I hope to never hit my child. Its not for me. I remember being spanked and I am 35-I don’t want to humiliate my kid that way.
ETA: Also LOVE disposable diapers, toys dangerous in real life, I am not sure
Greeneyed
08 Feb 2010
Abortion (Not only would you or wouldn’t you have one but do you/would you condone others getting one.){i would not get one but it is up to other if they want one or not, I would not condone anyone}
Circumcision{no, unless medically necessary}
Baby Immunization{yes, they need it}
Breastfeeding{yes, best for a baby}
Formula{good if you can not or do not want to breast feed}
Disposable Diapers{love them}
Items that are not approved by the CPSC (bumpers, car seat extras-straps, covers, head rests. department store sleepers that aren’t approved by the SIDS Association, etc. etc.){bad idea, too dangerous}
Baby Wearing{have no idea what that is??}
Baby Leashes{don’t like them but if someone needs it for their kid then that’s fine, just not for me}
Co-Sleeping{love it}
Crying It Out{don’t like it but if it works for you}
Spoon Feeding{yes}
Infant Ear Piercing{not for me but if you want to it is your kid}
Baby Development Television Shows
{don’t like babies watching tv BUT I wouldn’t say anything to anyone who wanted to}
Child Care Centers{daycare?can be great if it is the right center }
Stern Voice{yes}
Spanking{NO, do not like this and don’t want to see others doing it either}
Toys That Are Dangerous In Real Life(Guns, Knives, Swords, Baby Dolls-as in teaching your child how to care for and to want a baby of their own at a young age, etc. etc.)
{ a big NO, to guns,knives, swords} {a yes to baby dolls for both boys and girls}
Joanna Mari
08 Feb 2010
1. NO WAY
2. Yes
3. Yes
4. Yes
5. Sometimes (usually with the baby sitter or when im not home)
6. Yes!
7. Some items. Not the sleepers that are not approved
8. Yes
9. Yes
10. Sometimes
11. yes
12. Yes
13. No
14. Yes
15. Yes
16. Not really
17. No
18. Only nerf guns and baby dolls are completely fine
KoKo [kupo!]
08 Feb 2010
I’m not a parent (yet) but I wanted to answer this anyway. =)
1. Abortion – I’m very against abortion, and I do not condone other women having them either.
2. Circumcision – I don’t believe there is any medical reason for one, but I’m not against them. I wouldn’t want to put my baby through that horrible pain, but I also don’t want him to be ashamed either. It’s a tough decision.
3. Baby immunizations – I don’t see a problem with them.
4. Breastfeeding – I’m all for it!
5. Formula – If breastfeeding isn’t an option, yes. (and for breastfeeding for a limited time)
6. Disposable diapers – yes
7. Items not approved by the CPSC – I don’t think I’ve be comfortable with that.
8. Baby wearing – I’m not exactly sure what this is, I’ve looked it up but I forgot.
9. Baby leashes – No!
10. Co-sleeping – Yes, safely.
11. Crying it out – No, I don’t think I could even let my baby do that though either, even if I did.
12. Spoon feeding – Yes
13. Infant ear piercing – Not particularly
14. Baby development tv shows – Only VERY little bits of it is fine
15. Child care centers – Only if needed for a short amount of time
16. Stern voice – Gah, this is another one I probably couldn’t do, even if I believed in it
17. Spanking – absolutely not!
18. Toys that are dangerous in real life – I would probably let my children play with nerf guns and the like, and I don’t see a problem with dolls either… I would just have to make sure they understand how the real things work.
nelawala
08 Feb 2010
Abortion – Not for it, not against it.
Circumcision – Alright if you do, alright if you don’t.
Baby Immunization – Alternative vaccine schedule.
Breastfeeding – Alright if you do, alright if you don’t.
Formula – Alright if you do, alright if you don’t.
Disposable Diapers – I am personally disgusted by the whole cloth diaper thing but my friend swears by them.I’ll stick to disposable (although I prefer the more eco friendly variety)
Baby Wearing – I don’t do it.
Baby Leashes – I prefer the backpack ones.
Co-Sleeping – I never did it because I wasn’t even about to deal with a struggle trying to get baby back into his/her own bed.
Crying It Out – To a certain degree.
Spoon Feeding – Gotta learn eventually, right? lol
Infant Ear Piercing – I don’t like it.
Baby Development Television Shows – My kids watched tv as babies both productive and none productive and are perfectly alright.
Child Care Centers – I am lucky enough to be a SAHM but if I did choose, I would probably choose a private home day care or single babysitter.Less germs.
Stern Voice – When the child is naughty.
Spanking -ANTI.
Toys That Are Dangerous In Real Life – It really depends.My kids play with play guns and baby dolls.No issues there.Swords as well they they are playing pretend (not knives though lol) I have taught my kids the difference between real and play.
srobersonnc
08 Feb 2010
Abortion (Not only would you or wouldn’t you have one but do you/would you condone others getting one.)- no for me (unless I was raped), yes for others (it’s their body to do with as they wish)
Circumcision- yes
Baby Immunization- YES!
Breastfeeding- no for me, but yes for others for the same reason as abortion- their choice
Formula-yes
Disposable Diapers-yes
Items that are not approved by the CPSC (bumpers, car seat extras-straps, covers, head rests. department store sleepers that aren’t approved by the SIDS Association, etc. etc.)-yes
Baby Wearing-not for me
Baby Leashes-not for me
Co-Sleeping-no
Crying It Out-when necessary after a certain age (luckily haven’t had to with my kid)
Spoon Feeding-yes
Infant Ear Piercing-no
Baby Development Television Shows-some
Child Care Centers-not for me because I have a grandma for free!
Stern Voice- Lord YES! Who doesn’t use a stern voice??
Spanking-yes, when necessary
Toys That Are Dangerous In Real Life(Guns, Knives, Swords, Baby Dolls-as in teaching your child how to care for and to want a baby of their own at a young age, etc. etc.)- baby dolls, really?? I’m not big on guns, but I’m not going to totally ban them and make them more desirable.
Ruthie
08 Feb 2010
Abortion (Not only would you or wouldn’t you have one but do you/would you condone others getting one.) ~~~~~~~ I would not get one for myself nor would I condone it but unless they are really trashy people (i.e. using it as a form of birth control) I would not condemn (so-to-speak) those who choose it
Circumcision~~~no
Baby Immunization ~~~~yes
Breastfeeding~~~~~yes if possible
Formula~~~~~yes if breastfeeding not possible
Disposable Diapers~~~~yes
Items that are not approved by the CPSC (bumpers, car seat extras-straps, covers, head rests. department store sleepers that aren’t approved by the SIDS Association, etc. etc.) ~~~~probably not
Baby Wearing~~~ not sure what that is
Baby Leashes~~~~ no
Co-Sleeping~~~~ not every single night
Crying It Out~~~~~yes
Spoon Feeding~~~~not sure what you mean by this
Infant Ear Piercing~~~~~no
Baby Development Television Shows~~~~sure
Child Care Centers~~~~~yes if needed
Stern Voice~~~~yes
Spanking~~~~~yes
Toys That Are Dangerous In Real Life(Guns, Knives, Swords, Baby Dolls-as in teaching your child how to care for and to want a baby of their own at a young age, etc. etc.) ~~~~~~guns/knives/swords: as long as they are obvious toys and not realistic looking (i.e. water guns, obvious plastic swords/knives) I don’t have a problem with it baby dolls: I do no believe that having a baby doll teaches our kids such things…I had a baby doll when i was little that actually ‘pooped’ and ‘peed’ and ‘cried’ I never wanted a baby at a young age. In fact I’m 24 and still don’t have a child of my own. (however I do have a nephew that I have helped raise. My sister had no interest in baby dolls when we were kids, she had her child when she was 18 years old)
Connor
08 Feb 2010
Abortion- I am against abortion and think it’s wrong to take another persons life because of your mistake. However because the country is so divided on the issue I feel that it should be allowed before 3 months. I still don’t condone it but this is an issue people need to compromise on.
Circumcision- I fully support the procedure when it’s being done to a consenting adult that has decided to do the procedure. I would never condone this being done to a minor or someone against their will. Everyone has the right to their own body. And since the procedure has absolutly no medical benifits why would you do it? (I resent my parents for doing it to me)
Baby Immunization- I personally will not immunize my children untill they are older. The risks for imminizing a child just isn’t worth it. I don’t want my child to develope autism for something that could have waited a couple more years. Even then they will only get what is required for school and everything else will be up to them. Immunization can be important in some cases but I’d rather not put my kids at risk for something when they are so young. I think people are too quick to pump drugs in their kids when it’s not really neccissary.
Breastfeeding- I’m all for. no matter what anyone says breast milk is always better than formula. however everyone should have their own choice on that, I think you should breast feed if you are able though.
Disposible Diapers- I think you should use disposable diapers. (better hygiene)
Baby Wearing- Do what you like on that one.
Baby Leashes- Hey sometimes they are needed. But unless they are it’s best not to treat children like animals.
Co-sleeping- It’s not a good idea after about age 1. In fact it’s a horrible idea, for many reasons. One usually kids have a hard time ever sleeping alone.
Crying it out is important- children need to learn to sothe themselves at some point. You can’t baby them through everything but you don’t neglect them either.
Spoon Feeding- I didn’t realise this was an issue lol
Infant Ear Peircings- BABYS ARE NOT ACCERSSORIES, they are not their to do what ever you want with. People need to learn to respect their children and their bodies. Poke holes in your own bodies! Leave the kids alone. Just because you are a parent doesn’t mean you can do what ever you want to your kid. There are also medical issues that go on with this.
Baby Developement shows- Children actually should watch TV untill they are at least 2 years old because of the effect it has on kids. Other than that kids shouldn’t watch a whole lot of TV. The developement shows are kind of like Wii fit. You can’t get your excercise from a video game and you can’t get brain development from TV
Child Care Centers- They are getting way too out of line with their rules. I want my child to go to an in-home day care. At this point day care has gotten so bad I would hate to put my kids in that environment.
Stern voice- Perfectly fine. However it should only be used to get a kids attention when it’s really needed or when a kid keeps being bad. Don’t use this as the first thing.
Spanking- Kids that grow up in spanking homes are usually more violent. Spanking can be used correctly and if it is then it’s fine.
Toys thing- Really it’s a load of it. Let kids play with what they want.
-Connor
cut50yearsago
08 Feb 2010
Most of these things will not greatly impact your child with one exception, "circumcision" is the amputation of healthy tissue from a healthy body and is a very unnecessary cosmetic surgery.
How dare you allow somebody to do such a personal thing to another person, your son, boys lived just fine and grew to be men and fathers for millions of years before some sicko started mutilating them.
Proud Mommy of 3
08 Feb 2010
Abortion (Not only would you or wouldn’t you have one but do you/would you condone others getting one.)- No I NEVER would and I do not condone people who do it its MURDER
Circumcision- Yes and my 2 boys had it done
Baby Immunization- Yes all of my kids have there shots
Breastfeeding- Breast is best but some women really cant breasfed like me
Formula- Yes it was a life saver for my kids because I NEVER produced milk
Disposable Diapers- Yes because they r easy lol
Items that are not approved by the CPSC (bumpers, car seat extras-straps, covers, head rests. department store sleepers that aren’t approved by the SIDS Association, etc. etc.)- I still used bumpers and headrest these people are always changing there minds on what is safe and isnt.
Baby Wearing- N o I feel they need to be put down at times
Baby Leashes- no I dont agree therer not dogs they are humans
Co-SleepingCrying It Out- cry it out it works
Spoon Feeding- Ya my kids had to eat
Infant Ear Piercing- Sure why not
Baby Development Television Shows- they are cute but I didnt run out and buy all the Dvds
Child Care Centers- Some Moms have to work dont they
Stern Voice- it works
Spanking- It works and I do spank my children when they get out of line
Toys That Are Dangerous In Real Life(Guns, Knives, Swords, Baby Dolls-as in teaching your child how to care for and to want a baby of their own at a young age, etc- My boys have nerf guns and play war games all the time and my little girl loves baby dolls and I think it teaches her how to be gentle and loving.
Olivia ! ⓣⓞ
08 Feb 2010
*Not a mom yet*
Abortion- pro choice
Circumcision- no
Baby Immunization- yes
Breastfeeding- if you can
Formula- if you have to
Disposable Diapers- yes
Items that are not approved by the CPSC- no
Baby Wearing- yes
Baby Leashes- no
Co-Sleeping- no
Crying It Out- from age 2
Spoon Feeding- yes
Infant Ear Piercing- yes
Baby Development Television Shows- NO
Child Care Centers- after age 3
Stern Voice- yes
Spanking- only after something life threatening
Toys That Are Dangerous In Real Life- no to all except baby dolls
iNtErEsTiNg (:
Anna
08 Feb 2010
Abortion: Against it, to a certain extent. If you didn’t want a child then you should have been a little more responsible, no? Rape is an obvious exception.
Circumcision: No, that’s not my choice to make. I can’t do that to someone *else’s* body. Plus there’s absolutely no need for it, and no benefits to it that condoms and good hygiene accomplish way better, which should be done regardless of whether the man is circumcised or not anyways. Our little boys are born absolutely perfect and do not need surgical altering!
Baby Immunization: I am planning on *selectively* vaccinating my children. Sure I’ll vaccinate my kid, but with everything under the sun? No. There are too many vaccinations these days.
Breastfeeding: Absolutely for. I don’t know why someone would be against breastfeeding lol.
Formula: Would prefer if a mother would breastfeed, but I understand that some women are actually incapable of it (medical problem or something).
Disposable Diapers: For…
Baby Wearing: Either. I know some babies quite enjoy it.
Baby Leashes: Against. If you literally have so little control over your child that you need to put him on a leash to contain him then there’s something wrong with your parenting. Leashes are for dogs.
Co-Sleeping: For. If done correctly, it is actually very safe.
Crying It Out: Against, because babies never cry for no reason. I mean, yeah, you can let him cry for a couple minutes (if he’s just falling asleep or something), but if he’s been crying non-stop for half an hour then go help the poor kid!
Spoon Feeding: Uhm…I didn’t know this was an issue.
Infant Ear Piercing: NO. My child is not my property to alter and decorate at will. Entirely unnecessary.
Baby Development Television Shows: I think a bit of TV is okay, because I think it’s good for the child’s mental development. But I hate it when parents plop their kids in front of the TV for hours and hours every day. Actually I kind of hate the TV when it comes to kids, because I think it’s important for kids to learn how to entertain themselves.
Child Care Centers: I would prefer to leave my child at a grandparent’s or friend’s house if I absolutely can’t take care of them for a couple hours.
Stern Voice: Sure.
Spanking: Resorting to violence should never be necessary. I don’t want to use *pain* on my kids as a form of punishment. I was spanked tons by my father and that just made me absolutely terrified of him. In fact I’m 23 and *still* terrified of him.
Toys That Are Dangerous In Real Life: Not against…I remember playing with some toy guns and swords as a kid lol and I turned out to be a very non-violent person.
But of course if my kids do have a toy gun or something, I’ll make it very clear that when it’s a toy it’s alright, but that real guns are very *very* dangerous, and if you see one to not touch it and come tell mommy right away. I’ll just make that distinction.
2under2
08 Feb 2010
Abortion – no
Circumcision yes
Baby Immunization-Yes
Breastfeeding- Yes if you can, I tried but did not work out with my 1st he was tongue tied,
Formula- Yes
Disposable Diapers- absolutely especially when you have a 5 month old and a 15 month old
Items that are not approved by the CPSC (bumpers, car seat extras-straps, covers, head rests. department store sleepers that aren’t approved by the SIDS Association, etc. etc.)- I use crib bumpers
Baby Wearing- yes love my moby
Baby Leashes- Have tried it but he would not walk. Don’t Judge I just try to figure out the best way to go out with babies that are only 10 months apart.
Co-Sleeping did not do it but I have no problem with it.
Crying It Out- try it, did not like it at all and did not work. but it works for some people
Spoon Feeding- yes
Infant Ear Piercing- no
Baby Development Television Shows- yes
Child Care Centers- yes especially if it has a curriculum
Stern Voice- yes
Spanking- i don;t know but I think no
Global
08 Feb 2010
Abortion-
-I wouldnt and I raise my kids not to. But other people can do as the feel they need to do. If the baby was going to be menatlly challenged or live a life in pain or torment..I’d abort
Circumcision
Not nessecery
Baby Immunization
I wouldnt do it today something is bad with those vaccines ..but my kids are immunized all but the oldest who was raised holistically,,27 and healthy
Breastfeeding
long term yes
Formula
bad stuff
Disposable Diapers
pollutes the earth ..use cloth
Items that are not approved by the CPSC (bumpers, car seat extras-straps, covers, head rests. department store sleepers that aren’t approved by the SIDS Association, etc. etc.)
just be careful
Baby Wearing
I believe in baby wearing
Baby Leashes
its good for a laugh..I would never
Co-Sleeping
I did and do
Crying It Out
never! thats so stupid
Spoon Feeding
if they cant pick up the food and find their mouth how else would it work?
Infant Ear Piercing
I did it..and my girls love me for it
Baby Development Television Shows
no
Child Care Centers
never
Stern Voice
ya..
Spanking
never
Toys are ok



Abortion–In cases of rape, incest, or serious danger to the mother’s life, then yes. Otherwise, there are thousands of infertile couples who would love to give an unwanted baby a loving home.
Circumcision–Yes, I think it’s cleaner and healthier. I see no reason not to.
Baby Immunization–Absolutely, I want my babies to be healthy.
Breastfeeding–Yes, I plan on breastfeeding my little ones for as long as I can.
Formula–If you have to. If your milk isn’t coming in or the baby can’t figure out how to latch on, then of course you have to do what you have to do to feed your baby.
Disposable Diapers–Absolutely. I used to be a nanny for a little girl whose mother used cloth diapers, and LORD it was a pain. I’m not that patient.
Items not approved by CPSC–I’d probably be wary of items without CPSC approval.
Baby Wearing–As in those Baby Bjorn carriers? Absolutely! I think those are great.
Baby Leashes–No, that’s what their hands are for. Get a dog if you like leashes.
Co-sleeping–When they’re newborn, yes. Once they start sleeping through the night, it’s off to their own rooms.
Crying it Out–Yes, it teaches children to self-soothe.
Spoon Feeding–No idea who would be against it or why…
Infant Ear Piercing–Nah, I’d give her a choice once she hits 7 or 8. She may not want her ears pierced, and if she gets it done at that age, she can learn to take care of her newly-pierced ears.
Baby Development TV Shows–In moderation. As long as baby isn’t in front of the TV for hours on end, it’s fine.
Child Care Centers–I plan on staying home with mine until they start school full-time. I wouldn’t send my kids to one. I’m not a fan of having children and then sending them off to a daycare from 8AM to 6PM. When I’m on my deathbed, the last thing I’m going to think is "Gee, I really wish I’d spent more time at work!"
Stern Voice–Excellent form of discipline when used properly.
Spanking–Don’t believe in it. There are better ways.
Toys that are Dangerous–Within moderation. I’m not against baby dolls or other things as long as my kids understand that they are for pretend only, and never to be used against another person. I don’t like guns or knives. Swords are cool for Halloween, but not otherwise. My husband is in the Air Force, so a little bit of military toys is to be expected.