Help me, I’m going NUTS?
So I took my 6 month old son to the Dr earlier this week and they said he doesn’t weigh enough. He weighed 14 lbs. and his birthweight was a few ounces shy of 8 lbs. (they said the same crap about my daughter and it was terrible the things they made me try with her…vegetable oil in her bottle??!! ICK!!)
Anyway…I’m going to follow what the doc says, that he needs to be eating more solid foods and fewer bottles. Therein lies the problem…
Me, my carpet, his baby seat, EVERYTHING is covered in baby food. I’m about to go crazy. I understand he has to learn to eat, but there’s GOT to be a way to feed him so that we don’t have to bathe everytime he eats. Like I have time to feed him, bathe him, take care of my husband and 5 yr old daughter PLUS clean the carpets daily.
I don’t have a high chair, and can’t really afford one at this time, so I feed him in this play chair thing because he can sit up well in it. Well…it’s disgusting too so I have to take it to the carwash
to clean it every few days. Can anyone offer any pointers on less messy feeding?? Please, before I lose my cool! =)
I swear it’s not a fake question. I wouldn’t waste my or your time. Maybe I’m just messy…lol.
oh, and I am feeding him myself. I’m not that smart, but I know he’s too little to try to get a spoon in his own mouth. ha ha. Maybe it’s the putting too much on the spoon thing, because most of the mess comes from what’s in his mouth that he spits out and he also has a terrible habit of blowing raspberries while eating. Then I get a face full of whatever muck he’s eating at the moment.
17 Responses
zack’s mom
09 Feb 2010
Ella
09 Feb 2010
Buy a drop cloth and put it under the seat where she eats. After she eats, just rinse it off or shake it out (depending on the food) and reuse it. When it’s really dirty, toss it. They’re very cheap. you can probably even cut it in half.
As far as the baths go, hahaha, yes, I remember having to bathe her after every meal. Won’t last forever, and you’ll miss it some day (Yes, you really will!)
Enjoy her.
Edit: Hi, Zach’s Mom above me! No, it isn’t a phony question. My children are way past that stage, but yes, I really remember having to bathe her after many meals. She just had it all over her, and it didn’t seem worth washing her piece by piece, so I just threw her into the tub (gently of course! lol). I think it’s not a question of how much food is on the spoon, but rather how fast the child can grab it and rub it in her hair before you can stop her! lolol
Erika L
09 Feb 2010
I know you said you can’t afford a high chair, but if you look on line like craigslist then you can probably find out for about 10-15 bucks. Anyway back to the mess ![]()
Get an old sheet drape it over the floor so you don’t get the carpet dirty.for his baby seat you can do the same thing. make sure its thick enough so the food doesn’t just soak right through it. It might not look pretty but hey at least your not cleaning everything over and over again. As for the baby, not much you can do about him….kids love to get dirty while eating.
Susanne B
09 Feb 2010
Try putting smaller amounts of the spoon, he’s too young to be feeding himself with a spoon, so don’t go there!
If his play chair bounces, stuff the underneath with towels so he can’t bounce while he eats, and if his hands go everywhere then cover him with a blanket and tuck his hands in.
You could also buy a PVC playmat or something of a similar size and put that on the floor when you feed him.
Good Luck
xxx
dumplingmuffin
09 Feb 2010
give him a plastic spoon or toy to hold whilst you are feeding him,you hold his dish do not let him near it and you feed him
Bradley’s
09 Feb 2010
First off, my son is 10 months old and I still do all the wet feedings. He can self feed anything dry and crunchy but baby food, noodles, anything runny or messy I feed him. I can’t imagine a 6 month old being able to feed himself properly.
Second, lay a bed sheet under the play chair so anything that makes it to the floor ends up on the sheet and it can be washed. Also, feed him in his diaper only.
Feed him yourself and it will solve most of your problems.
Post on craigslist.com in the wanted section. Be up front that you cannot afford a highchair and need a donation. More than likely someone will donate one. Hell, I have two extra ones and I’d give you one if you lived close to me.
Muhammed A
09 Feb 2010
don’t worry mam
david k
09 Feb 2010
The answer is pretty easy. Mix powdered milf in with her regular milk, and he’ll gain weight easily
littlemomma711
09 Feb 2010
Well, my brother and I were right around 17lbs when we were 1yr old, and we have grown up to be perfectly healthy…so don’t let the doctor’s scare you about your baby’s weight.
Also, I’m not sure where you live, but you might be able to find a "free-cycle" in your area through yahoo groups. I am on a free-cycle for my area, and all you’d need to do is make a posting about needing a high chair, and you might be surprised how many people out there will be willing to get rid of some older baby items they have. It’s worth checking into, because it’s free.
Also, have you considered putting down an old sheet on the floor. At least you could scoop it up when done and wash it, rather than worrying about the carpet…
Mel
09 Feb 2010
Until Junior gets the idea take a nipple and cut the end out of it and he can get the strained food that way. I used to mix baby cereal with Formula and give it to my girls in a bottle That worked pretty well. You have to enlarge the hole to allow the cereal to pass through. You can always feed a little strained geggies with a spoon and give the rest in the bottle as above.
Yvonne
09 Feb 2010
He’s only 6 months old. Are YOU feeding him at all? Put him in his chair and let him know it’s time to eat. You feed him. With a baby spoon. Hold his hands/arms and put the spoon towards his mouth, or give him something to hold. He’ll open it and you feed him. Maybe feed him like this everytime for now and give him once a day to practice on his own. If he doesn’t eat within 5 minutes and only wants to play, don’t force it. Take him out of the chair. Make sure you sit infront of him using the utensils so he sees how he’s supposed to do it. BTW, a highchair REALLY helps. You should think about investing in one. Maybe you can get one second-hand from your local paper or thrift store.
I’ve been through this. It’ll get better, I promise. Don’t forget to count to 10 and breathe if things get to be too much!
robby2hotty6
09 Feb 2010
this is what i do, i have a 5 month old who has ate baby food since she was 2 months old with no problems and no mess really lol, put him in his play chair or like a bouncer or even on some pillows, where hes in an upright position but doesnt have to hold his own head up, my baby can sit up but when she does, she tries to lean forward for the spoon every time and gets it on her cheek lol, get a baby spoon and put him a bib on and get some baby wipes, put like a little bit of food on the tip of the spoon, wipe the spoon across the lid to get it off the bottom, put the bottom of the spoon on his bottom lip, lean the tip in his mouth so the foods in his mouth then kind of hold the spoon there a second so instead of pushing the food out he pushes it against the spoon and it still stays in his mouth for him to swallow, my baby has never pushed food out but shes bad for trying to blow spit bubbles while eating so when you hold the spoon there she tries to blow a bubble but fails to get lil specks of babyfood everywhere lol, i hope this helps, i know how frustrating it is when they just won’t do what you want, **Oh yeah, once he gets some food on his chin and lips, wipe it off with the baby wipe so when he goes to stick his fingers to his face, which mine tries at least once, he doesn’t have food on his face to get on his hands…then his clothes and everything else lol GOOD LUCK
mirnmirc
09 Feb 2010
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oranges
09 Feb 2010
well, I’m sorry to say that there ain’t no escape from the mess…you’ll just have to feed and wipe and feed and wipe off the mess made by you son…do it as soon as he plays with the food you just spoonfed him…
you see,its normal for an infant to play with his food…he does that repeatedly if you’ll observe…this is like his trial and error kind of developmental stage…he learns that when he does certain things (like play with his food:e.g. throw it, spit it etc), to his food, certain consequences will follow (e.g. the food will splatter all over the place, he’ll see his food on his hands, it’ll feel sticky…& believe it or not, even the way you’ll respond like if you’ll wipe it off or not)…so please, the only way to deal with times like this is to give LOADS of patience to your child…
Ladydi
09 Feb 2010
Ha! I’m having the same problem. This is my 3rd child, and I’ve never had this much difficulty. I found that if I give him his own spoon it makes it a lil easier. I keep a big, warm, wet towel beside me that way when I’m finished feeding him, I can use that and not have to bathe him every time. I also put a towel down in his bouncy and feed him from there because it is more of a controlled enviornment. I did notice that I was given a cloth high chair for Christmas. Im really dreading that now. I think the plastic/vinel ones would be a lot easier on mom.
nic
09 Feb 2010
Hopefully with time, your baby will learn to keep food in his mouth a little better, until then try putting an old towel or sheet underneath the place you’re eating to keep food off the carpet. It’s much easier to toss these into the washer than trying to scrub bright orange carrots out of a carpet!
We don’t have a high chair either, we use a booster seat which is cheaper and we’ll be able to use much longer than a highchair anyway. What is your babies play chair like? If it has toys attached it might make him excited and more wiggly because he’s got Mom, toys and food!!!, A babies three favorite things all in one!
One thing I do, is right when I pull the spoon out, I immediately put the spoon gently over his mouth so it covers almost like a shield. When I do this he doesn’t seem to open his mouth and spit his food all over. If the jar is close to him and that is what he is getting into, maybe you could have your daughter help you feed the baby and hold the jar if she is old enough. It is good for kids to have chores anyway, if she is about 4 or so I bet she could do it.
Another huge help to me is a BIG bib. My mom made some bibs out of regular kitchen dish towels. They are really cheap and easy to make. You just cut half way through one side and cut out a circle for the neck, then add snaps or something to close the back side up. It covers the whole baby and then we only have hands and a face to wipe up. Or just use an old shirt of your daughters that would be big on the baby and cover him all up, maybe tighten the neck part with an elastic or twisty tie so it fits around him.
And if all else fails, just know it is a phase and it will pass… okay, maybe not, my husband is still that messy and he’s 27… but try to see the light side of things and be grateful you have a home to get messy and kids to mess it up!
Hang in there!
mystic_eye_cda
09 Feb 2010
How about real food, not pureed food?
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/6762795.stm
Solids best
After six months, Mrs Rapley said babies were capable of taking food into their mouths and chewing it.
Therefore, feeding them pureed food at this time could delay the development of chewing skills.
Instead, she said, they should be given milk and solid pieces of food which they could chew.
Mrs Rapley argued that babies fed pureed food had little control over how much food they ate, thus rendering them vulnerable to constipation, and running a risk that they would react by becoming fussy eaters later in life.
She blamed the food industry for convincing parents that they should give children pureed food.
She said: "Sound scientific research and government advice now agree that there is no longer any window of a baby’s development in which they need something more than milk and less than solids."
Experts seek to debunk baby food myths
Little evidence supports ‘any particular way of doing things’
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/9646449/
Guidelines for implementing a baby-led approach to the introduction of solid food
http://www.borstvoeding.com/voedselintroductie/vast-voedsel/guidelines-for-implementing-a-babyled-approach-to-the-introduction-of-solid-food.html
PS Cheap table cloths, old sheets, etc make good carpet covers



ok wow!!
my 5 month old eats stage 1 baby food, and we’ve never had this problem ever. the most it gets on his his face and bib.
either this is a fake question oryour putting way too much on the spoon!!